12 Ways To Bring The LUST Back To Your Relationship

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8. Be open and honest.

Open a dialogue about what really turns the both of you on and don’t do it while you are in the middle of having sex. Be honest about what scares you and why. Lots of people who think of BDSM assume that it’s all whips and chains but in actuality, there is a whole spectrum of behaviors from mild spanking to light bondage with silk ties.

“It is both partners’ responsibility to be gentle and really know what they are doing; while remain opening and communicating their needs. For instance, most people in the kink community know that it is the “bottom” or the person having things done to them that is actually in control of the play,” says Van Kirk.

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